Sonntag, 23. Januar 2011

The mysterious rishta part 1

So for those of you who have no idea...I got a sort of strange marriage proposal...more or less it is still in the making, the whole rishta and it came out of nowhere...well basically it came out of a certain direction. It came out of boy A's direction. Boy A is the one I'm involved with at the moment.

Boy A and I met on the internet, boy A is the friend of a female accquaintance of mine(it seems she is married to his cousin so I was told by boy B). So we talked and met eventually at his hairdresser salon, at that time he was still with his German girlfriend, he told me he had no idea why he was with her he didn't love her and he was just the "fun type of person"- needless to mention their relationship ended a week after he and I first met. So boy A and I are just involved, he made clear he would not marry a "woman who smokes, dates and has no family sense", I don't mind I don't like marrying hypocrites either.

Boy A is half-Indian so therefore he has a huge family in India, his cousin X happened to see my pictures on FB via someone else's account(I am still unsure if that is true or just an invention of lies). Cousin X took a great liking on my physical appearance and asked Boy/Cousin A to copy(or as I'd call it to "steal") my pictures, faithfully A followed X's order and told me 2 days ago "I sent him your pictures" when I asked when that had been he said it was weeks ago.

So last week boy A constantly stressed me "Let's meet please" I was in absolutely no mood to see A(our last meeting had been disastrous and I refused to speak to him for days and it took him a while to get why). I eventually agreed and A introduced his mamu(maternal uncle) to me. All 3 of us went having pizza and A's uncle was keen on asking me a lot of questions he told me at the moment he was making sure to arrange his nephews marriages- obviously to Desis only, as non-Desi women are not able to keep a marriage to a Desi man stable- A's uncle knows it well, for he had been married thrice and it never worked with these European ones...Now that uncle wants me to accompany him and possibly A(YES him too!) to India in a few months time to get to know that cousin X. Cousin X- I do not know much of him apart from the fact that he has my pictures and is green-eyed and supposedly he studies something. I don't even know WHERE in India he resides nor do I know his age, A "thinks" he could be around 23. However A cannot be trusted, A has his very own plans concerning THAT marriage between me and his cousin...

The next meeting between Mamu, A and me is on the following weekend. Lets see what happens...

5 Kommentare:

  1. I think boy X wants an easy way out of India, be careful x

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  2. I get X motives, but what are A's motives?

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  3. A's motives are clear! A is outta India and not marrying anyone but a submissive desi woman, so he's helping his cousin X get out of India too and is backed by his Uncle who clearly shows them the ropes. Using and divorcing is clearly not an issue for these men! Listen to Hina Baji and kick the lot up their backsides sooner rather than later! and do NOT go to India with them!!!

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  4. My friend N is scared now as I mentioned the possibility of going to India with them. N says I could end up locked into a room and forced into signing nikah papers, or even worse...N says such people are capable of anything.

    I don't know anything about the boy I'm going to ask on the weekend and put up my conditions, if they are not met nothing will happen...

    I guess you have reason concerning the uncle, as far as I know though A has yet to acquire German citizenship(he says he is unsure what passport he holds at the moment if Saudi or Pakistani or Indian???)...his parents never allowed them to travel alone to India out of fear they might be abducted or so.

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  5. you would be a big fool to go to india with em ,,,,

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